I see the big kids less and less (they just go out and get their own lives..what are they thinking?), so I know how fast it will go. I’m looking back over Facebook memories, and I’m a little sentimental today. I am praying to remember each and every little moment as important. Even the ones I’ve yet to experience. Here’s to the end of summer and intentional time with each of them this year.

I literally hate being in a deadly meal crunch and binge eating chips and dip trying to pick a recipe at the last minute. It is a nightmare. I feel the weight on my shoulders at meal time. I don’t know why (society’s expectations? a southern thing? no idea.) But when my kids’ tummies are rumbling, I have to put a plan together or die trying.

I am so thankful that the thing I feared was not the end of my girl. We know it is most dangerous for those with heart and lung problems . . and diabetes.

Read the texts though they come few and far between, respond gently, encourage, and be available if there are two minutes to talk before they fall asleep.

When I am on top of things (hahahaha!), here are some of our favorite easy-to-prepare breakfasts:

We knew we wouldn’t have them forever, and it was time to let them go.

Don’t stress over the little things. If I’ve learned anything . . I know my kids will call or text me if they really need something.

There are a few things I wish I’d known with the first child that I slowly figured out after the first couple practice kids.

When I budget funds for babysitting and date night expenses, when I allot the time and put a date on the calendar, and when I work to find babysitters who love to play with my kids (and my kids can’t wait to hang out with!), it demonstrates to my husband and family that I believe my marriage is alive and valuable.

I hope I am able to encourage and serve others, to make their lives better, and to help families thrive together.